6. Compassion for others
心怀宽悯
Don’t be quick to judge others. Consider where they are coming from. If you think someone has made a statement that sounds silly, doesn’t always mean that the person is dumb. It could also mean he is not aware yet. Just give people some time before you take a call on their character.
不要急于评定他人。多想想他们的生活背景吧。如果你觉得某人说话很愚蠢,并不代表这人是个笨蛋,或许他只是见识不多罢了。评定他人性格前,请多花点时间相处相处。
7. Modesty
谦逊
No matter how rich or famous you become, always be modest. The day you stop being humble, you’d be automatically down the road that will lead to your downfall.
不管你多么富有出名,请永远保持谦逊。一旦你骄傲自大,必将踏上失败之路。
8. Involvement
投入
Whatever you do, be involved in that process. If you work in an office, know the names of everyone on your team. Keep a tab on everything that is going around you.
不管你做的是什么,都应该投入其中。如果你在办公室工作,应该叫得出团队里每个人的名字。給自己的活动日程做个记录吧。
9. Initiative
积极主动
Be someone who gets out there and gets things done. People always respect those who take initiative. Always talk about things you want to accomplish than resting on your past laurels.
做一个拿出行动解决问题的人。积极主动的人总能赢得他人尊重。不要总是依靠老资本,而应该多谈谈自己想要实现的目标。
10. Tact
机智老练
To avoid long-term damage you need to be tactful. If someone calls you an ugly name in public, you need to deal with him diplomatically without creating a scene. Avoid conflicts for as long as you can.
要避免长期不利局面,你应该学会老练。如果有人当众辱骂你,你应该在避免纷争的前提下妥善解决问题。请尽可能避免冲突。